What if we were to accept ourselves wholly for who we are?

What might happen to our world?

When many first met me they knew me as Bella Rosa: bi, poly, geeky, kinky. I’m still all of those things, but I’m also a sex-positive advocate, healer,  mother, attorney, lover, educator, mediator and Colorado Girl.  My life has been spent trying to create transformation with individuals and systems. Changing the world by helping others find their own voice through connection with the events and stories of my own life. Changing the world by helping people feel deserving of the love offered to them.  Changing the world by navigating systems of inequality, serving as a shield for those who have been too battered by the world. Changing the world by changing how we talk about relationships, human desire and the myriad forms of love. Changing the world by giving voice to the shame and guilt we shoulder in our relationships, My intention is simple–to remove the shame and guilt barriers we have constructed to keep us from giving and receiving love.

I want to change how we interact with the world around us and how we view ourselves.

I want to improve our relationships with each other, by manifesting authenticity in how we relate to our own bodies and hearts.

I want to change how we view sexuality and how to live more authentically and passionately.  In order to change, one must be able to let go and destroy the past.  I work within the flames of that destruction to breathe the light of life back into our world.

In order to change, one must be able to let go and destroy the past.  I work within the flames of that destruction to breathe the light of life back into our world.

I am polyamorous and kinky.  I play the roles of sacred Queen, healer, courtesan, advocate and counselor quite well, both professionally and privately.  I am the mother of two, lover of many and passionate about raising our consciousness past shame, anger, guilt, and regret.  I advocate for LGBTQ+ rights, in particular, bi-visibility. I educate about stepping outside the default zone and creating conscious, self-actualized relationships. I care about enthusiastic consent and empowering people to find safety in leaving abusive and toxic partners. I am a student of patterns and am looking at power dynamics within the relationships of spirit to self and society.  I love sexual fluidity and vibrant, authentic expression.

You will find that I often use my own stories and background to make sense of the current sexual-political dramas we each face.  I am passionate about sharing ideas that I find inspiring and urging us to find a way to live with love, compassion, and acceptance.

These are the intentions of this Love Priestess.

Usually NSFW. Most content is at least mildly sexual in nature.