Messages of Divine Love: The Prejudice of Pride

July 15, 2024 / The Intuitive Night Goddess Tarot

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Intro Notes to the Deck & Reading

“People who say it cannot be done, should not interrupt those who are doing it”

― George Bernard Shaw

This quote has stayed with me for years, lingering in the back of my mind, whenever I’m faced with another impossible dream, another improbable outcome asked of me. Growing up Chicana, especially from Pueblo, there is an underdog spirit that rises from generations honed by penitente, border-crossed-us perfectionism that kept us safe. I would rather go down swinging than never take the risk in the first place…because when victory arrives, and 9 times out of 10 it does, the sweetest reward is proving the naysayers wrong.

Right now, we have a lot of naysayers. Good, honest people who are too caught up in ensuring the world knows that they “do not condone violence” while also voting for measures and candidates that send weapons, choosing the side of violence over and over again. Or the number of times someone has clung to their Second Amendment rights, opposing measures in the decades since Columbine that might have prevented this assassination attempt. Americans passively endorse violence in both word and deed, if not actively threatening it every time someone exists in a way they don’t personally approve of.

None of us…and I mean, none of us know all the answers, but that hasn’t stopped the bombastic claims and whimpering excuses that have tried to pull us off track in the past week. “Don’t go this way…go that way,” they yell from the sides of the road pointing to a crossroads that should have been intuitive in any other time or place, but right now seems clouded with doubt.

The theme of the week, which predictably will relate to Pride & Prejudice, is about not letting the surety of our perceptions or the criticisms from the sidelines cloud our vision for the future. Fate is not yet written, nor has the landscape stopped shifting. More shifts will happen. Don’t let the pride of our prejudicial sources of misinformation and division influence the choices we make.

The one sure thing I’ve learned in my life is when I align with the choice of love, I wind up exactly where I need to be, to help the people I’m meant to help. When I choose out of fear, I fall into self-destructive traps that constrain my power. We are each bringing a vibrant and sparkling hue into this fresco painting of the future – how can your gifts help that vision come to life?

Where We Are This Week

Warrior of Cups

Heart Chakra

You know all the times I say “Vulnerability is strength”, now is the time we get to take that out for a test drive. For example, I’m not too proud to admit that I was nervous about teaching at an event last weekend. It was going to be my first solo teaching trip out of town since my burnout breakdown in 2019. Was I emotionally/socially ready? Disclosing that before the event alerted my friends to watch for my energy levels, reassure me when I couldn’t make the morning events, or even invite them to sit with them. Trusting them with that vulnerability is how we show each other our strength there. I was able to get an idea of what my needs are with this new healing I’ve been through which will help when I attend a bigger event in a few weeks. Each time we do that, we make ourselves stronger to hold a shield for others when they are feeling vulnerable too.

Messages from our Guides

Five of Cups (R)

Solar Plexus Chakra

The grief we feel, particularly when our beliefs, systems, and legacies start breaking apart is profound…make no mistake about it. It’s a dull ache that keeps getting reopened with each news story. But right now the best antidote we can offer is gratitude. Telling someone “Thank you for being there for me” is a bigger help than we may realize. Offering gratitude for the people and circumstances that have been supporting you, making a gesture of good faith to heal a rift, or expressing support. Be outwardly effusive in your expressions of sincere praise this week – it will be a boost to more than just yourself.

Messages from Lady Gaia/Mother Earth

Ace of Swords

Crown Chakra

Despite the badness we see in the world, we cannot let it deter us from grasping the opportunities that are in front of us today. Yes, we don’t know whether this time next year we’ll be living in a dystopian post-project 2025/pre-Bell Riots hellscape, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t write the book, produce the event, or live the dream while we can. Especially right now, listen for those chances that feel like you’re being pulled by the crown (chakra) toward something incredible for you. Once you tune into that feeling it will be unmistakable, even if it seems impossible. Lean into that divine yes.

Messages from the Ancients

The Empress

Sacral Chakra

So, in any reading, because of the guides I work with, and the energy I embody in my personal rituals, when the Empress comes up, it’s a signal I don’t ignore. For the ancestors/ancients to bring this to the forefront is to remind us what has been missing from our leadership, and what has been essential to our survival. People do not survive become they are the most powerful, often it is because they receive the most nurturance and protection. It is found in the healer who sets the broken bone, the volunteer at the soup kitchen who turns donated food into nourishing meals, or the grandmother who babysits while the parents go back to school after a job loss. Kindness, compassion, and hope are all around us. We are going to see the rise of the nurturing leader, but only if we truly connect back to those who nurtured us to where we are now.

Messages from Our Future Selves

The Wayfarer (The Lovers)

Third Eye Chakra

Our fates are intertwined within the agenda of our highest self, the deepest calling of love. When we reach the crossroads, when we act from that higher self, the one that sees all (including ourselves) from a lens of unconditional love, we pull ourselves closer to the fated world we truly want – one where that love is honored. But to that, we have to keep choosing love…over and over. Sometimes that means choosing the love we have for our family to move to another city or choosing the love that we have for ourselves by leaving a bad job. However, don’t confuse love for guilt, or shame for affection. Put your trust in the decisions that bring out our highest forms of love.

Messages from Mother Mary

Meditation (The Hanged Man)

Root Chakra

I don’t usually associate the Hanged Man with mediation so much as a deliberate, strategic reorientation to a new mindset or process. Not that this can’t happen in mediation or that mindfulness isn’t a part of that shift, but the point of this card – what will help us identify our highest sources of love, our deepest roots of strength will be found in meditating on the role that nurturance (or the lack thereof) had on how we view the world, the perceptions and internal narratives that trigger us. By contrasting and comparing how patriarchal strength has relied on definitions that put people into harsh boxes, we may be able to see the paradigm shift of adding nurturance as an essential quality of survival. How do you fit into that paradigm? Pray, mediate & listen.

Extra Card

Three of Wands

Throat Chakra

Even when we’re dancing to our tune (I’m soooo good at that), we are still moving the party down a larger path. Every step, every person counts. Instead of seeing the competition on the horizon, when we look for opportunities for collaboration, we find people who can fill in the blanks in areas where we might be struggling. Connect with other professionals in your field (or just interesting ones) and see what you can do to support each other. The only way we’re getting through this is together – each of us has a part to play, a color to paint, a piece to add to the puzzle of our future. Don’t hide yourself – celebrate the glow we all have together. You are enough!

Undercurrents

Five of Wands (R)

Root Chakra

I promise I’m not trying to get all toxic positivity here – I’m the last person who wants to spiritually bypass – but there are a few people who keep focusing on the glass half-empty scenario, totally forgetting that the glass has poison in it anyway. Instead of lamenting the struggle, look for the ways this is saving you from a worse fate. Can you imagine how hard it would be without the protection and help you have available now? Here are a couple of quips that illustrate the undercurrent this week:

Stop should-ing all over yourself.

Anticipate struggle and struggle is all you’ll get.

Stop looking for struggle in all the right places.

You can ask the driver of the struggle bus to let you off at the next stop.

Final Advice

Nymph of Cups (R)

Third Eye Chakra

Lived experience matters. Generationally many of us had to grow up way too fast, assuming adult emotional roles long before we were developmentally ready. That experience is embedded deeply within us, written into the genetic code we’ll pass on to future generations, just like a different generational code was written and handed down to us. But if we are to be the pattern breakers and soul shakers that build up a new earth, we have to acknowledge with some sincerity how that parentification was too much, too soon. We have been conditioned to consider worst-case scenarios that we forget we’re not seeing the full picture…that there is also a best-case scenario that lives beyond the reaches of our imaginations. Before acting, consider whether you’re holding the current person/situation responsible for a conditioned outcome-response scenario in your history.

Parting words from a Geek Empress

I’m about to drop some Lizzie Bennet truth with my full Sagittarian-Jane-Austen-birthday-sharing bluntness:

History is not yet written and conjecture only serves the cause of hopelessness. Are things dire? Hell to the fuck yes, it is. Has the outcome been written? Oh fuck no, it isn’t. So why are we presuming that there is only one way this ends? The hand-wringing reminds me of Mrs. Bennett and the pearl-clutching reminds me of Mr. Collins. Everyone’s got an opinion about propriety, but how many of us are examining how biased priorities got us here?

None of us are hiding from how terrible the world is right now. But endorsing the fear throttles down the energy we need to fight for a better future. This isn’t a “bad thoughts produce bad results” toxic positivity thing, it’s a “we are fed a constant diet of information that preserves systems of trauma and distrust, so please stop doing patriarchy’s work for them” thing. In an age of misinformation aimed at disintegrating the bridges of our empathy, sowing seeds of doubt is a dangerous morale-crushing act to inflict on people already traumatized and afraid. I don’t know about you, but I want to be sure I’m not accidentally serving patriarchy’s goals of isolation before I choke out the last of someone’s hope.

As such, smug cynics and tittering hope-wreckers will no longer coerce me out of my attention, time, or vision. No different than what Darcy does in interfering with Bingley’s love for Jane (and his denial of his own love for Elizabeth) acting on dire, assumed conclusions can wreck multiple lives, bursting the hopes that love could have fostered.  Without understanding how bias and trauma influence our perceptions, much like Darcy, our central conceit is that our perceptions are even right to begin with. In their assumptions about each other, both Darcy and Lizzie have to face how their prejudicial pride created more problems and obscured meaningful insight into their feelings for each other. How much harm might have been avoided with an open heart and transparent affection?

This week’s reading dares us to see beyond the probable and see the pathway to the possible. If we stop letting our pride get in the way (I always include myself in that) we might be able to see not only multiple outcomes but multiple options that can liberate and sustain more people than we considered before. We always have a choice because love is always an option. The question is, can we dare to believe in the impossibility of our collective goodness by choosing love…or will we succumb to the probability of an organized evil by recoiling out of fear?

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